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Divorce Doesn’t Have to Break You."
Learn how to confidently represent yourself and create a lasting, stress-free separation even if your ex is difficult.
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Look, I Understand
I know what you’re going through, I’ve been there too
The things I felt included
Feeling stuck, overwhelmed and lost.
Right now perhaps you don't know how to release yourself from this web of chaos you find yourself in and find your head spinning so much you cant even focus on day to day life.
Feeling like no one’s truly on your side.
Maybe you feel you have nowhere to turn. Legal fees are too much and any solicitor you have spoken to so far just made you feel more anxious. Your ex is constantly having a go and manipulating you by either guilting you or attacking you to the extent you don't even know who you really are anymore.
Terrified and uncertain about the future.
Potentially you have such a fear of the unknown at what the future holds regarding the house, the finances, the kids and how it's all affecting them. In fact sometimes you just give in to your ex just to keep the peace to minimise the affect on the kids.
The fear alone stops you moving forward.
Possibly the very thought of going to Court or the paperwork that goes with it completely overwhelms you to the extent you would rather be miserable in your comfort zone of this chaos than take uncomfortable steps to be happy in the long term because the fear of taking action is crippling.
Yes Divorce can impact children, but how much so depends on the parents.
Divorce can be tough on children if handled incorrectly, which can shake their sense of security and normality. The love normality, even if it is a new normal. Children are alot more resiliant than we think. Therefore with the right support and approach, they can thrive and grow and sometimes even benefit from the parenting plan that is created through the Divorce itself.
My Solution
How to Take Control and Move Forward
Things I wish I knew and had 15 years ago.
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Rebuilding your life on your own terms.
There is a manageable way to structure your day to day life in a way that limits the effects that your separation and everything associated with it has on you.
A simple process that coaches you to think back to the person you were before you met your ex. To think like that person. Press the reset button as such. To make decisions despite your ex and their ways not because of them.
A simple process that coaches you to think back to the person you were before you met your ex. To think like that person. Press the reset button as such. To make decisions despite your ex and their ways not because of them.
Guided support every step of the way
You can do all this without the hassle and jargon of a legal team surrounded by a community of people in the same situation as you but at different stages of the process who you can lean on for support so your not so alone, and an easy way to both understand and navigatte the paperwork required.
A baby step approach if you like, that is not overwhelming but instead makes you feel like you're making steady progress and you can do it all online in a secure way at your own pace with our guidance.
A baby step approach if you like, that is not overwhelming but instead makes you feel like you're making steady progress and you can do it all online in a secure way at your own pace with our guidance.
Understand your options before you commit.
What if you had a structure and process to research and understand likely outcomes of your case such as the house, finances and kids, long before you even committed to going to Court.
A crystal ball as such that gets you the clarity you have lacked so far that's been holding you back up to now. To also do this confidentially and securely while your ex is none the wiser.
A crystal ball as such that gets you the clarity you have lacked so far that's been holding you back up to now. To also do this confidentially and securely while your ex is none the wiser.
Understanding family Court to ease your fears.
What if you discovered that with all those structures and preparations done in advance, getting your ducks lined up so to speak, that Court is not even close to being as intimidating and as overwhelming as you think.
You see family Court is held in secret meaning the room is empty so its just you, your ex and the judge and nobody can speak better about your situation than you can. There are also no wigs, cloaks, or gowns like normal court and no legal jargon at all. Just a normal chat about the facts, the facts and the facts alone.
You see family Court is held in secret meaning the room is empty so its just you, your ex and the judge and nobody can speak better about your situation than you can. There are also no wigs, cloaks, or gowns like normal court and no legal jargon at all. Just a normal chat about the facts, the facts and the facts alone.
Breaking down the areas in which we focus on.
We break everything down into simple, manageable steps, no jargon, no overwhelm. From understanding your options to guiding you through the paperwork, we’re with you every step of the way so you can move forward with confidence.
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Emotion
Most people just want a quick fix solution but this is counter productive. We want a robust outcome not a quick one. So first we help you identify and address how your feeling and the worries you have and then coach you to think with your head and not your heart in solving these worries before we even begin your actual case.
Evidence
Then we have a process to assist you to recall all the facts of your marriage, the breakdown of it and then we separate the relevant facts for your court papers in support of your case and what your seeking the Court to grant you.
Explore
Then we establish what you want, need and desire into the future regarding the kids, the finances and property and much much more. We research the options that are possible and help you work on making them a reality both through the court but also externally too for the short, medium and long term future.
Engage
Then and only then do we engage in the actual Court process itself only when you are ready, and assist you through the whole case from start to finish with the knowledge and comfort that your head is back in the game, you have all your facts and you know exactly what it is you want from the whole process all with the support of our team and community of current and former clients right behind you all the way.
Evolve
Yes we even support you after your divorce case to help you implement what you achieved in Court. Matters such as the parenting plan, accommodation, new partner, work/life balance and returning to court for changes or breaches etc that need to be made. We got you covered from start to finish with a holistic approach alongside a supportive community to get you the DIVORCE YOU DESERVE by providing you with a number of platforms both online and in person.
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"Paul has guided me through each step from the first day I contacted him. I'm nearly at the finish line now, he guided me through each stage, giving me confidence to proceed with what should have been a terrifying experience. I will be delighted when the process is completed and will be forever thankful to Paul in Family Separation Services for all his help and guidance."
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